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I have the system set up as L-R-Sub for the main outputs. Pretty simple. Of course it adds the sub send on the channels. The problem seems to be that if I use the sub send on the channels it also sends signal back into the mains output. My question is what’s the point of having the individual sends. I can do this without them. The only advantage is it gives me a control over my sub output but why the channel send pot.
I must be missing something and have found no detailed info on the website or in the help menu in the editor.